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Choices

What most people see in death is old age, illness, regret, weariness… Those are all choices.

You can meet death with a sense of peace and accomplishment, of having fulfilled your purpose, having lived as truthfully as possible with no regrets. A deep gratitude for having celebrated life in all it’s offerings, both painful and ecstatic, equally.

You can leave this life before death takes your body, with eyes wide open in wonder and a heart overflowing with bliss. You are free! You have lived deeply, felt deeply, met all the challenges, cried, laughed, fell and got up more times than you can count.

A poem that my unfalting spirit/intuition brought to my attention on this day, perhaps speaks, much better than my fluency (or lack of) could.

“It’s taken years for her to understand that

her greatest traits don’t become flaws

simply because someone couldn’t appreciate them.

Her respect – something she earned herself

Her value – in how she viewed herself

Her time- spent on her terms

Her energy – went only where she chose

Her love – something she now shows her Self first…

The world shudders at the thought of a woman

so fiercely independent

she starts taking back

what was hers all along.

It struggles to make sense of a spirit

finally sure of its strength

no longer afflicted by casted aspersions..”

- J. Raymond