No one should compromise in a relationship. Each must respect the other and not force them to change or consent to being lesser than who they are.
We don’t use other people to get our own way, even if our ego taints it with “best intentions”.
We don’t always have the same level of understanding at the same time. But relationships are built on honesty and trust, not levels of achievement.
When we can open up to one another (as we do with our self), no matter how it seems, we’ll reach a mutual path that is best for both.
Truth takes away false dilemmas, needless thinking. You stop inventing phobic scenarios. Truth takes away the stress, it frees you from overwhelming and excess emotions, as well as countless physical symptoms that might have turned to illness. It also takes away illnesses, many of your problems and issues, and also prevents subsequent ones that you might have attracted (to learn).
It’s important that we don’t feel pressured or forced to be
someone we are not in our relationships. It’s important that we make the other
feel accepted and not judged, not devalued for his/her ideas and choices. Too many people are bitter, revengeful, indifferent, dishonest and yet assume they are together.
We can only be together in respect for one another, trust,
appreciation and being sincere with one another. And it all starts with our
self. Then we can walk together, side by side, holding and supporting each
other, creating a new life, as we take each step at a time.